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Guest Post: Escape from Mentalism - Jonny Scaramanga

Jonny Scaramanga, author of the Leaving Fundamentalism blog, shares his thoughts on his fundamentalist Christian upbringing and why encouraging questioning is an essential part of a good education... Enjoy.

(Also, when you comment, can you please comment on the original post itself if you wish for Jonny to see it. Thanks.)
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I grew up as a fundamentalist.

I'm very proud of that sentence, now. For years it was my guilty secret. I pretended to understand the pop culture references my friends made (I'd missed those TV shows because I'd been in church). When I moved schools for my GCSEs, I pretended to understand my school mates' jokes, even though I'd spent the last three years in a fundamentalist school and didn't know what 'wanking' meant.

Then I became a professional musician, and people asked me what the first CD I'd ever bought was. That was awkward, because until I was 15 I only listened to evangelical Christian rock music. My first CD was Wake-Up Call  by Petra, and I didn't want to tell anyone that. I always said I'd been a diehard rock fan since I was 8, and then had to explain how I'd managed seven years of that without listening to any music. I also didn't want girls I liked to know that I'd never even held hands before, and then nothing ever happened because they couldn't tell why I was acting so weird.

So learning to own my fundamentalism has been huge for me. I've learned to realise it wasn't my fault; I was indoctrinated by adults who should have known better, and by escaping and making a good life for myself, I've beaten them.

And the way I beat them was by doing what they hoped I would never do: Asking questions... (Read more of this post)

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Tags: ACE, Christianity, Fundamentalism, God, Indoctrination, Religion, Scaramanga

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Comment by Carnun on March 11, 2013 at 6:35am

Agreed.

Marianne, I'm not sure what you mean... I'm pretty sure you can leave a comment by just providing an email address and name. You shouldn't need to have a 'GRAVATAR' account.
Let me know how it goes :)

Comment by Marianne on March 10, 2013 at 11:47pm

I found his story very sad. I left a comment for him to read but I didn't want to get into this GRAVATAR group.

Comment by Michel on March 10, 2013 at 9:50pm

Child abuse. =(

Comment by Onyango Makagutu on March 10, 2013 at 4:06pm

Interesting story

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