Thanks people! I'm in Tasmania. Originally from near London and got to Australia when 20. Met a guy on a Christian Commune in Far North Queensland and by 26 left after an awful violent relationship with 4 small children! Seems 'not believing' was an excuse for rape and violence! I am so lucky I was in Australia though and got financial help bringing up a beautiful family. I am 52 now... a young 52 and seems some consider me an artist. I am very grateful to a country that has helped me. Things are changing here though.