Who are you, what brought you here, where are you coming from, when were you made aware of AU, why did you decide to join...
Chris, I'm a curious guy. I ask about my relationships. I want to know if they are doing for me what I want them to do.
If they are, I contribute to them and do not remain a new member.
If they are not doing what I want them to do I try to change them. If I'm unable to change them I end them and look for other relationships.
Being curious, I asked if you ask about your relationships. I hope they are doing for you what you want them to do.
I'm shy, and because of my vestibular disorder I don't travel much. I can drive, but don't like to.
Most of my friends are long time twenty-thirty years or longer. We mostly communicate on the telephone because they don't live by me. I've moved a lot so don't have many friends from school as I suppose many people do.
I don't know what it would be like to live in the same neighborhood one grew up in. People who grew up, went to school with and worked with childhood friends are probably more secure in their relationships.
What I find interesting is that people I've befriended occationally call me and even though we haven't spoken to each other for years our telephone converstation is like we've always spoken. It's interesting when old friends drop by that I haven't seen, or heard from for a long time.