Gowd dam it,
Don't have children if you think you need to hover over them.
Kids are capable or raising themselves as independent persons without pieses of shit parents who hover over them.
Perhaps there is a reason why people who had "Baby on Board" signs are 'blessed' with children in their fifties living in the house without any skills.
People such as that diserve it and likely want it.
Whoes to blame - the parents.
If you don't want children don't have them. It isn't a requirement.
See Jim Jefferies comedy about this if you don't understand.